20.
Polyamorous/Pansexual
Taken by @kaikatsuna-yane
Chicago
I'm not flawless but I'm gorgeous.
honestly, my blogs a mess fucking help.
don't be shy talk to me I need friends x.x
If you’re not doing anything with your life right now that doesn’t mean you never will. Maybe this phase in your life is necessary for reasons you’ll eventually find out.
I am free to go to any university for 400€ a year and get education in any field I want - like Arabic if that pleases me, I am free to have healthcare and get myself treated, for free, when I’m sick, I’m free to marry whoever I want, I am free to own a gun if I want, I am free to go to any church, temple, mosque I want and that’s law, I am free to travel through all Europe to work, for vacation, for whatever reason I want, I am free to quit my job whenever I want but my boss can’t fire me unless he has strict reasons, I am free to have paid maternity leave, I am free to have paid vacations as well (a month per year). I am free to do and to be whoever I want. I’m good, thank you.
I do not understand how some people cannot grasp the fact that YES YOU CAN HURT PEOPLE WITH YOUR PERSONAL CHOICES. Like participating in bdsm CAN AND DOES forward the oppression of all women everywhere! It doesn’t matter if it’s all consensual because the center of bdsm says that women are supposed to be subservient and submissive! And it just reaffirms the misogynistic tendencies that are already ingrained your partners brains. And YES that does affect everyone, whether or not you choose to acknowledge it. So please stop trying to use bdsm as something feminist because /it’s noottttttt/
As someone who is not into BDSM I cannot tell you how much this post angers me.
Firstly you make the assumption that BDSM always involves a man and a woman, completely erasing gay, lesbian and bisexual folk who are into BDSM.
Secondly you make the assumption that in a BDSM relationship between a man and a woman, the woman will always be submissive. That is so unbelievably ignorant and uneducated of you that I can’t even fathom why you are bothering to post on this subject at all. If you are unwilling to do any research on the matter and are just going to talk based merely on supposition, and your own obvious prejudices, then I would ask you not to bother at all.
Finally, I thought feminism was about personal choice? In which case surely having the freedom to choose how to express yourself sexually should absolutely be on the feminist agenda? Surely it is more misogynistic to make the assumption (like you have) that women involved in BDSM are somehow coerced, and are incapable of making up their own mind about their sexual preferences? If anything reaffirms misogyny it is exactly the kind of thinking that presumes women have no control over their own lives, whether it be sexually or otherwise.
My brother and I found a dnd group that we’re going to check out so we each designed new characters to play with. This is my brothers, his name is Ojutai Songsteel and he’s a kenku monk. These are just basic sketches to get a feel for what he wanted his character to look like
