HELLO!!
I HAVE A FUCKING QUESTION??? What makes the age 18 so Important???? HUH?? Answer me, I’m tired of people tellIng me I’m too young to be part of BDSM, I’m tIred of beIng told you can’t have sex until you’re 18. Instead of saying you have to be 18 or older to be part of Bdsm, or know what you like or don’t like, why don’t you sit you arrogant ass down and listen to the person. You will know whether or not that person is a true dom or sub if they know their own boundaries and ask you what yours are. I’m tired of people telling me that I’m too young, I’m not if someone knows who they are, and they are talking to there partner then who are you to say they can’t be in love, or that they can’t do what they want with their partner. I believe that if you are 14-15+ and you know you and you know your partner, you should feel free to be who you are no matter what people say. Also, to all those stupid parents or adults out there thinking that I’m wrong, well you’re wrong. I believe that no one knows what someone can and can’t do more than the person themselves. Not to mention people are going to do what they want whether or not you like it, parents can’t control their kids so get over It. If anythIng you should make sure that your kid is just beIng safe (STD tests, Condoms, boundaries, and so on), and it’s a healthy relationship. make sure that your kid and their partner know each others bodies, and boundaries. To me safety and happiness, and being able to enjoy what you want is the most important thing. So to all you people who say they won’t date an underage lIttle. kItten, pup, dom, and so on, why don’t you just give them a chance. And parents and adults, why don’t you just trust your chIld a little bit, and trust that they know themselves and what’s safe and not safe. Lastly, to subs and doms of all ages, do what you makes you happy don’t let some else tell you what you can and can’t do. you know yourself best, so don’t be afraId to wear your ears and tails and pacifiers and so on, because BDSM and love is a lifestyle, and it’s a part you, and you shouldn’t feel the need to hide it, or let someone else tell you what you have to do. I love you all doms, subs, switches, and so on. Keep you head up, and ears perked. Bye!
~NezumI Blaze Cataclysm
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Oh my god
18 is the legal age of consent.
If you are a minor or not an adult, you cannot consent.
You may feel mature for your age, but you’re still a kid. You are a minor. Do not partake in BDSM if you still need parents permission to do most things in your life.
Research all you want, but you’re still a minor.
Also a big reason is that, if you’re under 18, people can get in trouble for talking to you about explicit kink topics? I don’t know where OP lives, but corrupting a minor is still a thing people can get charged with and can seriously fuck up their lives. If you expect people over 18 to be talking to you about BDSM and stuff, you’re actually putting them in a tough spot legally.
(Also, I knew who I was when I was 16. I knew my boundaries. And then I got older and realized I didn’t know shit. If I had been being a Dom when I was that old? I would have run a high risk of making major mistakes and fucking up something fierce.)
Yeah.
You think you know the world when you’re 14+ but really you’re just immature and ignorant.
Stay away from the BDSM community until you’re a legal adult.
Don’t put yourself and other more at risk for your kink.
Seriously, people will take advantage of you. Not everyone is nice. And just because they pretend to care doesn’t mean they do
Any adult wanting to date a minor should be a giant red flag.
OP needs to step back from the community and stick to the stuff theoretically.
At 14 we think we know how things go down but truth is we don’t, once you’re 18 you’ll understand. You’ll see one day.