Anonymous asked:
Can I vent at you? So I've just started talking to this guy on fetlife and he's so demanding (he's been speaking to me for no more than an hour or so) he's demanding I submit to him and that I must send him nudes and getting upset about other tops I talk too. I mentioned he's making me uncomfortable and he's flummoxed to why he's making me feel like that. I don't know how to blow him off I'm scared he's going to post my fetlife pictures elsewhere.
floatingcrownythingz Answer:
I hope this situation defused itself alright.
Let’s take this opportunity to remember some basic facts, fellas: being demanding and aggressive and rude isn’t dominant, it’s just typical dude bullshit.
D/s is a game between two consenting partners. Chat someone the fuck up as an actual person first, then get their consent before you start treating them like a toy.
Also, stop fucking demanding nudes CONSTANTLY. It’s tedious and exploitive. Learn some damn tact.
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